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最近的热播剧《北京爱情故事》中有句经典的台词说,“现在80后正流行结婚生孩子!”。确实,现在正值80后的适婚年龄了。但是仍然有相当一部分大龄朋友们迟迟没有踏入婚姻的殿堂,并且他们的意识里并没有要结婚的打算。究竟是出于何种原因,让他们宁愿一直保持现在的状态呢?
据调查显示:80后不结婚的一个重要原因是很多人担心结婚之后会离婚,也就是说现在很多80后对婚姻就没有安全感。下面我们就借这篇文章来进一步了解一下关于80后不结婚因为害怕离婚这一现象吧。
Fear of the trauma of divorce is stopping many young couples from walking down the aisle, a university report has found.
With the share of married adults at an all-time low in the United States, the latest research by demographers at Cornell University and the University of Central Oklahoma unveils clues why couples don't get married - they fear divorce.
Among cohabitating couples, more than two-thirds of the study's respondents admitted to concerns about dealing with the social, legal, emotional and economic consequences of a possible divorce.
The study, "The Specter of Divorce: Views from Working and Middle-Class Cohabitors," is published in the journal Family Relations and is co-authored by Sharon Sassler, Cornell professor of policy analysis and management, and Dela Kusi-Appouh, a Cornell doctoral student in the field of development sociology.
Roughly two out of three - 67 percent -of the study's respondents shared their worries about divorce.
Despite the concerns, middle-class subjects spoke more favorably about tying the knot and viewed cohabitation as a natural stepping stone to marriage compared to their working-class counterparts.
Lower-income women, in particular, disproportionately expressed doubts about the "trap" of marriage, fearing that it could be hard to exit if things go wrong or it would lead to additional domestic responsibilities but few benefits.
The study also found working-class cohabitating couples were more apt to view marriage as "just a piece of paper," nearly identical to their existing relationship.
They were twice as likely to admit fears about being stuck in marriage with no way out once they were relying on their partners' share of income to get by.
The authors hope that their findings could help premarital counselors to better tailor their lessons to assuage widespread fears of divorce and to target the specific needs of various socioeconomic classes.