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经常听到大家议论说:“娱乐圈有潜规则”。所谓的“潜规则”在一定程度上也算是“不能说的秘密”了,只要做到心中有数即可。但是“潜规则”这些东西在我们日常的工作中也是存在的,有很多禁忌啊,避讳啊,都是时时刻刻存在在某些特定的场合的。比如在白领聚聚的办公室,就又很多禁忌的话题。
即使办公室有你的亲密好友,在说话的时候也要注意话题。即使听到别人谈论那些敏感的话题,我们也要尽量避开或者是转移话题,这才是所谓的“办公室生存之道”。下面的文章就主要介绍了办公室的一些敏感话题,你不妨参阅一下。
1.Dollars and cents:金钱
It's no secret that salary talk should be avoided, but it's not just paychecks that ought to remain private. Debt, mortgage, and loans — yours or anyone else's — are a personal concern, and if money matters come up, the best thing to do is sidestep the subject and steer the conversation elsewhere.
2.Office rumors: 办公室谣言
There will always be cubicle gossip, but that doesn't mean you need to participate. You want to be known for your work, not your rumor radar. Even if you trust a co-worker and your intentions are good, there's still a chance that you'll be misunderstood, overheard, or otherwise caught up in the drama. Use your wit to comment on last night's TV highlights instead.
3.Job status: 职位
If your boss offers you a raise or a promotion, by all means, celebrate! Call your family, or your friends, but don't bring it up to a co-worker unless asked directly. Wait until an announcement is made or until your title officially changes; raising the subject yourself might seem boastful or rude.
4.Intimate issues:个人私事
Of course you'll mention the happenings in your life to the people around you, but remember to set limits on what you reveal. Even if you feel close to your co-workers, they're still your co-workers, and some things simply shouldn't be shared with office-mates. When in doubt, ask yourself if it's something you'd want your superiors to know. That will put things in perspective.
5.The bottom line: 底线
You will and should befriend the people who work alongside you, because getting along with co-workers can make your 9 to 5 pass in a snap. Just remember that those relationships are rooted in the workplace, so how and what you communicate can shape your business reputation.