在这样一个满是交流的时代，人与人之间的对话已经成为一门艺术。如何在一场对话中自如应对？如何面对交谈过程中的“无言以对”？如何化解沉默带来的尴尬？这些都需要你有足够地技巧去应对。

     你和他们对话，可能是因为突然的沉默而变得异常尴尬，你会如何处理呢？是选择转移注意力，做别的事情呢，还是继续保持沉默的局面等待对方化解这个尴尬场景？我们下面的文章就是教你掌握对话场景中的艺术魅力，让你在人际交流和对话站，游刃有余。

 Find what to say in your favorite topics.

We all have things we are passionate about: activities, hobbies, projects, goals, ideas or jobs. Take some time to make a short but relevant list with the things you are most passionate about, and would make easy conversational topics for you.

 Ask open ended questions.

One way to keep a conversation going is to get the other person talking. And the best way to do this is by addressing her open ended questions. These are questions which require more than simple 'yes' or 'no' answers, and offer the possibility of much richer answers.

 Blurt.

Often, we find it hard to keep a conversation going not because we can't think of anything to say, but because we fear the other person won't enjoy that particular subject, fact or opinion we have in mind. However, most of time, this fear is not anchored in reality. Give it a try, and you'll discover that people are not that harsh and they can enjoy a lot of things in a conversation.

 Let the other person end the silence.

Most people are uncomfortable with silences in a conversation. When one occurs, they immediately try to fill it by finding something to say. You can use this to keep a conversation going. When for example, you've just met a person at a party, you're talking and the conversation is stalling, do not leave that person and go find the peanuts or something like that. Instead, hang in there and let the silence work for you. Most of the time, the other person will eventually pick up the conversation and end the silence.

     看了上面的介绍，你是不是收获颇丰呀？在以后人与人之间的交流、交谈中，您是不是掌握了更多的技巧呢？相信只要掌握好一套有效地社交技巧，你一定会在处理人际关系的过程中达到事半功倍的效果！